{"id":12235,"date":"2012-05-10T21:35:11","date_gmt":"2012-05-11T01:35:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theredphoenixapl.org\/?p=12235"},"modified":"2012-05-10T21:35:11","modified_gmt":"2012-05-11T01:35:11","slug":"lesbian-seeking-marriage-license-arrested-in-nc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/2012\/05\/lesbian-seeking-marriage-license-arrested-in-nc\/","title":{"rendered":"Lesbian seeking marriage license arrested in NC"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/redphoenixnews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/120510-gay_marriage_protest-ap120510014976_620x350.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-12236\" title=\"120510-Gay_Marriage_Protest-AP120510014976_620x350\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/redphoenixnews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/120510-gay_marriage_protest-ap120510014976_620x350.jpg?resize=490%2C276\" alt=\"\" width=\"490\" height=\"276\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">(AP) WINSTON-SALEM, N.C. &#8211; A lesbian who sought a North Carolina marriage license with her partner and was rejected under a state law banning same-sex marriage was arrested with another person Thursday after they refused to leave a government office where several gay and lesbian couples were turned away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">The civil disobedience followed a day after President Barack Obama publicly endorsed same-sex marriage, and two days after North Carolina voters overwhelmingly passed a constitutional amendment that defines marriage as solely between a man and a woman.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">The protest came amid attempts by a gay rights group, Campaign for Southern Equality, to broaden public support to allow same-sex marriage and more protests are planned in coming days at other county offices in North Carolina that issue marriage licenses<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Nine gay and lesbian couples each presented completed forms and identification to a clerk at the local Register of Deeds office in Winston-Salem, but were refused because state law recognizes only heterosexual couples.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">&#8220;We cannot issue you a marriage license because it is not allowed under North Carolina law,&#8221; a clerk told Brent Morin, 36, and his partner Gerald Morin, 42, of Winston-Salem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">On Tuesday, North Carolina became the 30th state to pass a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage. The state already has laws that prohibit gay marriage, but adding the prohibition to the state constitution will make that much harder to change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">&#8220;Can you at least acknowledge on here that you&#8217;re denying it and the date?&#8221; Brent Morin asked, his ring-bearing left hand trembling. The clerk complied. Other clerks smiled sheepishly or shook the hands extended to them by couples they had turned away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">&#8220;I just want to point out that we&#8217;re married in the District of Columbia, our nation&#8217;s capital,&#8221; Morin said. &#8220;Thank you.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">&#8220;Hopefully, one day you&#8217;ll be able to say yes,&#8221; said a woman who was the first to request a license with her partner. She and most of the other couples declined to give their names. A group spokesman said most couples feared trouble with their employers or other complications.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Mary Jamis, 52, of Mocksville, and a heterosexual friend who joined the protest, Mary Lea Bradford of Winston-Salem, were arrested after they blocked the entrance to the marriage license office and refused to leave more than 30 minutes after closing time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">A county administrator tried to talk the women into leaving and avoiding arrest, but the two insisted they would stay unless Jamis was issued a marriage license for her and her partner, Starr Johnson, 48.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">A half dozen female officers then crowded around Jamis and Bradford, who were seated. The officers asked them to stand, handcuffed them and led them out a side door and into a van to be booked at the county sheriff&#8217;s department across the street.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">They were charged with second-degree trespass, a low-level misdemeanor, and released without bond, authorities said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Christine Regan, 35, and Megan Silbert, 34, of Winston-Salem, were rejected for the marriage license while a heterosexual couple a few steps away were receiving theirs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Nate Bounds, 29, and Alicia Picou, 32, of Winston-Salem said they planned to marry May 19, when his father could arrive from his home overseas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Picou said she did not object to same-sex couples being allowed to wed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">&#8220;Why not? I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s really anybody&#8217;s business,&#8221; she said. I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s the government&#8217;s business to be telling people what to do with their private lives.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">The demonstration attracted no counter-protest and it&#8217;s likely few inside the sprawling county office building knew the protest was under way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">The Campaign for Southern Equality&#8217;s &#8220;We Do&#8221; effort that sends same-sex couples to fruitlessly ask for marriage licenses started last fall in Asheville, culminating in the arrest of a lesbian couple who said they had been together for 30 years. That two-week effort was followed by efforts in South Carolina in February.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Supporters of North Carolina&#8217;s newly passed amendment says it will make the definition of marriage more clear; opponents said it could harm health benefits for unmarried couples and affect domestic violence laws.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">The campaign expects to stage three similar demonstrations Friday in county offices in Bakersville, Marshall and Asheville, where further arrests are planned. Marriage-office demonstrations are planned next week in Asheboro and Charlotte.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Obama declared his support for gay marriage on Wednesday in a historic announcement that gave the polarizing social issue a more prominent role in his re-election bid.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbsnews.com\/8301-201_162-57432285\/lesbian-seeking-marriage-license-arrested-in-nc\/\"><span style=\"color:#000000;\"><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#0000ff;\">Fuente<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(AP) WINSTON-SALEM, N.C. &#8211; A lesbian who sought a North Carolina marriage license with her partner and was rejected under a state law banning same-sex..<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":38650,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[149,166,97],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12235","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-discrimination","category-government","category-us-news"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/redphoenix.news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/120510-Gay_Marriage_Protest-AP120510014976_620x350_12235_915e5.jpg?fit=620%2C350&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12235","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12235"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12235\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38650"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12235"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12235"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/redphoenix.news\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12235"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}